Ezra Miler reveals he's in a polyamorous sex 'squad'

19 November 2018, 11:21

Ezra Miller attends the CFDA / Vogue Fashion Fund 15th Anniversary Event.
Ezra Miller attends the CFDA / Vogue Fashion Fund 15th Anniversary Event. Picture: Getty
Jazmin Duribe

By Jazmin Duribe

He's is in a "polycule" – a term that combines polyamorous and molecule.

We all know navigating the dating world is a little tricky but Ezra Miller has found the seemingly perfect solution. The Fantastic Beasts: Crimes of Grindelwald actor is now part of a polyamorous sex group, after turning his back on monogamous relationships. People who practice polyamory have intimate relationships with more than one person with the consent of all partners involved.

Ezra – who identifies as queer – is open to dating men and women, but after having his heartbroken he's opting to have multiple sexual partners, which he calls a polycule. The group is made up of people he has met over time, as well as members of his band Sons of an Illustrious Father – but sorry guys, membership is selective.

Ezra opened up about his sexual experiences in an interview with Playboy magazine. The internet went into meltdown when Playboy dropped photos of him rocking fishnets, bunny ears and high heels. I mean, you've got to admire Ezra's unique take on the theme.


"I'm trying to find queer beings who understand me as a queer being off the bat, who I make almost a familial connection with, and I feel like I’m married to them 25 lifetimes ago from the moment we meet," he revealed.

"And then they are in the squad – the polycule. And I know they’re going to love everyone else in the polycule because we're in the polycule, and we love each other so much."

However, it's not all about sex. Ezra sometimes starves himself of sex because "a lack of sex is as important to me as sex". In the interview, Ezra also opened up about his sexual experiences at a young age and sexual abuse he suffered.

He continued: "I've survived abuse for sure, for sure, in a lot of capacities, starting from a pretty young age. There was a close friend who I had a sexual relationship with who really, really turned on me in a violent way. I've been attacked repeatedly in my life – I've been attacked by fucking bigots, man." He added: "It's really important to acknowledge the diversity of voices who have experienced this shit, and all genders, all capacities, all types of people. Everyone is victim to it. Everyone is a survivor of it."