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N-Dubz star Tulisa gets advice for her relationship with Fazer from former The X Factor judge Cheryl Cole.
After replacing Cheryl on the show, N-Dubz singer Tulisa received good luck wishes and flowers.
But Cheryl Cole has not just stopped at professional advice according to a friend of the star.
"Cheryl's begged her not to let all the hours spent working on the show wreck her relationship," a source said.
"She warned her that Simon expects the show to come first and advised her to keep a healthy work-life balance."
Tulisa has been dating her bandmate Fazer secretly for months, but the pair went public with their relationship at Dappy's 'No Regrets' solo single party.
Now Magazine say Cheryl Cole is worried that her role on The X Factor added to the strain on her marriage to cheating Ashley Cole and doesn't want the same thing to happen to Tulisa.
"'Don't end up like me'," the source says Cheryl told Tulisa.
"'I've lost the love of my life, several friends and I'm off track with my music because I devoted everything to that TV show'."